We had lunch that day.
Two weeks later we happen to be there again at the same time. He offered to take me out for dinner
and drinks. He would pick me up at about 7:PM. He spent that night with me.

We have been together for about three months. Our first night out was the last time we have been out together.
He comes to my apartment, stays till morning, and then off to work. During the week he may or may not call me.
When I complain to him he suggests I go out on my own, pick up a guy and bring him home. "Don't think I won't." is my reply.

I decided I needed to go further than just threaten. I work with Melody. She moonlights as an erotic dancer.
She has several male clients with connections. I told her, "I want to get fucked by a stranger in front of my boyfriend."
She did one even better. I would get paid to make a video getting laid.